Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Beach Nationals 2016

Jack's not the only one in this family going to nationals! Derrick and I just got back from a weekend in Virginia Beach playing in the 2016 beach national championship. It's an eensy bit less of a big deal than Jack's nationals :) There is no sort of qualifying round...no sectionals, no regionals, no qualifiers at all. It's only the 2nd year of beach nationals so they are still getting it going. For now, we can just sign up with a pick-up team, and go.

Since it's nationals the team had to have matching jerseys which is a little annoying because it's only one weekend but Alison is t-shirt maker extraordinaire and came to the rescue for our team.



It was funny because it was at this stage that 3 different sets of neighbors came over to see what we were doing. We do things a little differently in this household I guess.


Derrick was able to pick up for a men's team from California which was exciting. Beach is so fun and I didn't want him to miss out when I got invited to a women's team. 

As a nationals event the organization was great. About a mile length of Virginia beach had two fields per width of beach all the way down. There were food tents, bleachers, a showcase field, vendors, and score keepers. 



The weather was absolutely gorgeous although I think I'm at least two shades darker now. Derrick toughed it out his tank top jersey for the first game before resorting to wearing a long sleeve underneath to keep him from getting burned.


I try not to talk politics on this blog ever, but there is a lot of crap going on in NC that I don't agree with. All of the NC players wore rainbow sweatbands in a small protest of HB2 and as a gesture to the LGBT ultimate community. We gave each team we played two wristbands at the end of the game to give their MVP and by the end of the tournament the teams we played had heard about them and were so excited to get them. I was proud to be a part of it.


Exhausted but smiling after a fun day one. Free BBQ and a showcase game followed by watching the Flyers and eating Ben and Jerrys.



Team shot at the end of Sunday. Our team was a hodge podge pick-up team and we ended up holding seed. We didn't win a lot of games but it didn't take away any fun of the tournament. 


Derrick's team ended up tying for 3rd overall which was amazing! It was nice because there were 6 rounds of games each day but we only played in 4 on Saturday and 2 on Sunday. Our byes were pretty staggered so we were able to watch each other during our byes.


 

The only let down of the weekend was our hotel. It was kind of crappy and than on Saturday night, after a full day of games on Saturday and before an 8:30 game on Sunday, the fire alarm went off at 4:30 AM.  And it wasn't a drill. We woke up grumbling and searching for shoes and started heading down the 7 flights of stairs. Around the 4th floor we started smelling smoke. It was pretty scary. Fortunately it was just a small fire that the firemen put out quickly but we were evacuated for over an hour. We were pretty tired on Sunday. 

I can't wait for next year and hope we get an opportunity to play. It was really an awesome weekend. 

Friday, May 13, 2016

4 Year Anniversary Trip

We've been married four years! It seems like forever but then it also seems like it's flown by. We've gotten into a bit of a tradition (does 2x equal a tradition?) of going on a trip every other year for our anniversary. Two years ago we went west to California, Lake Tahoe, and Yosemite and it was amazing!

This year we're ramping up for a busy summer (is anyone surprised?) so we decided to keep it a bit more local and do a long weekend in Asheville. Derrick typically takes the reins on traveling and books our adventures and accommodations. I love it. It's such a process to figure out travel time, where we're staying, what we're doing, and he does it so well. I love not having to worry about it...I just get to enjoy it and know he made all the right decisions for an awesome trip.

Thursday was our anniversary so we hit the road Wednesday afternoon, dropped Crosby off with Derrick's mom (Thank you!) and continued on to the Doubletree by the Biltmore. Ever since my dad and I stayed at the Doubletree on a daddy/daughter New York trip it's been my favorite hotel. Probably has something to do with the free cookies. Derrick knew this and booked us for 4 nights!



For our anniversary we had the best day ever! Let's see if you agree. Derrick found an escape room company in Knoxville. We hadn't done an escape room in months because we'd already done all the local ones in Raleigh but we always try to find one when we travel. Well....Derrick found four! And then we added on a fifth so that we could completely round out there rooms! Five escape rooms in one day!! We were a little rusty on the first on and missed getting out by 30 seconds but after that we got continually better. The manager was so impressed with our brain stamina that he came out to meet us and give us free t-shirts. Derrick and I work really well together in these escape rooms. I think it's because we both buy in so completely. You ready for this series of pictures as proof?






The casino room was definitely our favorite and it didn't hurt that Derrick knew all the rules to the casino games so we got through the first part in under 8 minutes. The game master came over the intercom just to tell us we were crushing it. 

We did get a lunch break in between room 2 and room 3. I was able to grab this sneaky picture. Can you spot him? The Slytherin? There's not a single witch or wizard who went bad who wasn't in Slytherin.


Yeah....so clearly we geeked out on our anniversary day.

We fancied up a bit that night by hitting up Chestnut for a late dinner. It's a local place in Asheville and it was delicious with perfect portion sizes. It actually allows you to save room for dessert...smart. Then we promptly passed out from brain exhaustion.



The next day we were scheduled to go white water rafting but we had to re-schedule to Saturday because the minimum number hadn't been reached. We met Derrick's dad for a delicious breakfast as Tupelo Honey and then visited the Biltmore Gardens.

Not a bad view out of your backyard. I could probably sell that view.





The most beautiful greenhouse in the world.








I thought these were hundreds of little meerkats until we got closer. Not meerkats...just roots. I still think they look like meerkats.


That's a maple to the left. I hope our maple doesn't get that big. Our house will disappear.



After the Biltmore we found a local bouldering gym and got in a workout. It was pretty good but it definitely made us realize how spoiled we are by our local gym.



We met Blue for dinner that night and killed some time walking around. We came across this drum circle. Just a lot of drummers jamming with a huge crowd around them.


And Mom! I forgot to tell you! Look who it was smack in the middle of the drum circle! (The rest of you don't know him and I just forgot to tell mom about it so....forge ahead).


And, you know, because we can't help it, we did another escape room that night! Blue had never done one so we found one in downtown Asheville. It was not your typical escape room and it wasn't our favorite but it was still a good time and even better that Derrick got to wear this cool top hat!


Saturday was the highlight of the trip! Besides seeing Blue of course...she's always a highlight. We went white water rafting on the Chatooga. We went with the Nantahala Outdoor Center and they were excellent! It was a very early morning because we were two hours away and had to be there at 8:00 but the trip was spectacular and so worth it.

The river is in a nature preserve and the preserve has limited it to only three commercial rafting companies allowed permits on the river. They also require that groups are spaced out so that when you're out there on a trip you won't see any other rafters. They want visitors to really feel secluded and immersed in the amazing nature and beauty surrounding them. It was truly amazing. The entire 12 mile route probably had 30-40 rapids including some class 4s and an awesome class 5 sequence. The guides were so good and made us feel so safe even though it was actually a pretty dangerous environment. They took every safety precaution. Our adrenaline was pumping but we never felt in danger.

It was freezing when we got there and we were pretty nervous about that, but they had wet suits for us to wear and rafting jackets. Thank goodness! We were able to enjoy the whole experience without shivering the whole time.

Cute outfits.


They make a lot of money on these pictures but, the photographer does bring his kayak the entire way and we couldn't not buy one as a memory. We selected this one that we thought really captured the trip for us.


This should help you.


This trip was amazing. It was so refreshing and nice to get away and the rafting was such a cherry on top for us. We're already talking about going back with family or friends.

Congratulations for making it this far if you did! This was a monster post but it was about monster love. Happy Anniversary Derrick! I love you! Can't wait to see what you plan for us for year 6 ;-)

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

End of the Season

Derrick and I officially have one high school season under our belt. If we had to give a two word feeling about the season it would probably be "worth it". Coaching is hard! We are so worried about making sure our guys are enjoying it, learning the game, learning leadership, getting the right level of fitness, and keeping their heads up during  defeats. 


We practiced about three times per week and had league games and tournaments on various weekends.




It was a huge commitment but we really fell in love with this group of guys. We got so lucky to get this group. The best word to describe them is nice. They are so nice! And they work so hard.




These are pictures from our last tournament of the season a few weeks ago. This entire season we had been losing in our league games and not doing great in tournaments. This team lost over 20 seniors last year so this was a huge growing year. They had brand new coaches, a lot of guys who had never played before, and we focused this whole year on fundamentals. We came into D-II high school states seeded 5th and they played their hearts out.





We ended up in the championship game and took home second place overall. It was amazing and I still have goosebumps talking about it!


These are our seniors and man are we going to miss them!


And here's our future. Our underclassmen who will be leading the charge next year.


We hosted a great end of year party for them the Sunday after the tournament. We had kan jam and spike ball going, the parents came for a while, and lots of pizza! We gave each of the guys a new disc to get them through the summer and made them promise to throw.

We are looking forward to sticking with this group next year and continuing to see them improve!


Sunday, May 8, 2016

Mothers

Happy Mother's Day to the two best moms I know!


My mom is an incredible role model and support system for me. I love that we can talk real estate with each other and both truly understand the ups and downs that accompany this crazy industry that we're in. She is such a fighter for her family and she encourages us to be independent and go after the goals and the life we want. She has accepted Derrick into the family like he was one of her own and I know he is so grateful for that. I am so lucky to have been blessed with her as my mom.


Derrick's mom is so nurturing and has accepted me as a daughter from the first moment Derrick brought me home to meet her. She is so genuine in her thoughts and concerns for us we both know she would be there at the drop of a hat if we needed her. I am so lucky she raised such an amazing man that I fell in love with. His character is a testament to her!


Happy Mother's Day moms! I hope you both had the best day and know how much you are loved and appreciated!